Monday, August 18, 2014

Clarity


As I have been working on building my Beachbody business I realize that I have been forced to really look within myself more than ever before. In order to achieve success in MLM businesses you have to work on your personal development. As a psych minor I felt like I had a pretty clear understanding of myself and a decent read on others. I wasn’t wrong, but there’s so much more to it. Before I can grow my business, I need to grow me. I need to know my “why”, I need to know what drives me. I need to reflect back and see what the choices I have made are and how they have impacted my life and others. Some are good, some are bad.

What makes me happy: This is easy, My children, my husband, my extended family, my friends, my dog, helping people, working out, the beach. The list could go on forever.

What makes me sad: Not having enough time with my children, my husband, my extended family, my friends. Worrying about money, not having a good workout, being stressed at work, not growing at my job, having a bad-eating day so I feel crappy.

As I look at my list, it does define my “why”.

When I started coaching I simply wanted to pay for my shakes. Then thought, hey, money is tight. Let me see if I can make enough to pay for a vacation. I did it! I am so happy about this. But now what?

Another coach told me that there would come a point that I will need to make a choice. To grow my beachbody business, it needs more than the little time I give it now. Between my full time job that requires some travel, my kids schedules, my husbands rotating work schedule..I am already spread to thin. So now what, where to go from here?

My personality does not do well in grey area. I need black or white. This line of grey as to what’s next is not only scary for me, it makes me lose sleep! But as all learning processes go..I need to deal with it.

So I am paving my own road. I have defined it now so it’s not quite so grey.

I want to build my team with people who are also unclear of the future but know they want something more! I want hardworking fighters that are willing to put in some extra time now so we can do less later and enjoy those faces we don’t get to see enough of now. I want people that are inspired by helping people but care enough about them selves to know they need to take care of themselves first.  I know I can’t give this business my full day. It’s simply not feasible until I am financially sound. But I can give it 100% of 30 min a day, some days may be only 15 minutes, another day it may be an hour. But during those times…I will give it 100%. Could you? If you think so, let me know…I want you! And I will help you grow your business. I will give you all the tools you need and show you a path. Because at the end of the day. I am clear on this. I love my beachbody business. I love my team and I know I can build a dream off this business of helping others.
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Thursday, August 14, 2014

Can I get a do-over?

I was feeling so great after the 3 day refresh then my 10 days of clean eating! I really was....and then i fell off track! A little cheat turned into a big cheat. Although I was working out everyday, I wasn't following a formal schedule. Normally I commit to the full workout calendars with my program but since doing a hybrid...i've been all over the place.What this has proven to me again is that I need to PLAN and I mean PLAN EVERYTHING.

When I look back on these past 2 weeks I realize my whole life was sort of a mess. I was being inconsistent with my beachbody business as well! For some reason when i let one are of my life unravel it seems to effect many areas. I realize i cannot tackle everything at once but by planning, i get a domino effect of planning and my results will be better! i know it!!!

So, I am saying this out loud. Sunday I will be sure to be completely planned. I will follow an exact calendar for a workout program. I will stick to my meal plan and I will keep myself together! This will be tough as I am traveling next week. But, this is my commitment to me! we all have struggles in different areas. Many of us are too hard on ourselves. Years ago I would have really beaten myself up for this derail. Not now. I am in control. I have a plan and its up to me to implement it and be successful.

I got this!